In Loving Memory: 19th Obituary of Grandpa

 Today marks the 19th death anniversary of my maternal grandfather. For conducting such events, we refer to the Telugu calendar, which determines accurate dates of events according to the lunar cycle and this calendar keeps changing every year, based on the positioning of certain celestial bodies. This is a more spiritually aligned method for tracing a significant event.

Interestingly, every 19 years, the lunar date of an event in the past repeats with the original event, meaning the ceremony falls on the exact same day and time as it did when the event first occurred. While the event’s date changes every year, it falls on the same day every 19th year or the 38th year, and so on… Such cycles bring a sense of synchronicity and continuity

To honour the occasion, my cousins from all parts of the family made the effort to arrive a day earlier to spend some time with us. The house was filled with lively chatter. We played the traditional board games, and kept the competitive spirit up. We snuggled on the couches and watched movies, while sharing snacks together. Most importantly, the memorable part was how we all stayed up late in the night, and talked about everything from our childhood memories to future plans. 

The food was delicious, as we had an elaborate traditional Telugu meal , served authentically on banana leaves. Every dish was made with love and care. The aroma was just enough to make our mouths water.  

Amidst all the celebration and excitement, there was a moment of silence where my grandma grew quiet and went very emotional. She couldn't help but feel the absence of our grandfather, whom she misses. 

In the end, this day was not just a celebration. It reminded us of how powerful our family ties are, and also the richness of our traditions. It was a day filled with love, laughter and meaning.

Signing off...